What Are the Signs He Finds You Attractive?

Secret Signs He Finds You Attractive

By Susan Suarez, B.SocSc

Signs He Finds You Attractive

How Do Men Communicate Attraction?

One recurring question I hear when talking about dating and relationships is how do men communicate their attraction to women?

Some people seem to think that all men are “secretive” about their intentions and act on them spontaneously, while others believe men give clear signals that show whether or not they’re interested.

If you’ve ever been confused about how a man communicates his attraction to you, you’re in the right place.

We’ll go over how men show interest in women they find attractive and what the most subtle signs mean, so you know the deal and can respond in the best way. 

Let’s dive in!

Signs He Finds You Attractive

10 Sure Signs He Finds You Attractive

1. He Wants to Spend Time With You

When a man is attracted to you, he wants to spend more of his time with you. He’ll find reasons to talk to you, get to know you, and be close to you. 

When a guy is attracted to you romantically and see’s you as a potential partner, his brain starts releasing dopamine in anticipation of seeing you. If you’re not sure about why a particular guy wants you to spend time with you, don’t be. The answer is simple – He finds you attractive.

2. He Tries to Catch Your Eyes

When a man tries to catch your eyes, he’s likely attracted to you. This is one of the first steps of a man’s attraction strategy. Catching your eyes is different than staring, which can be pretty creepy.

But by catching your eyes and gauging your response, he’s looking for signs of mutual attraction from you before he escalates the interaction.

3. He Starts Up a Conversation

When a man finds you attractive, he’ll start a conversation with you as a way to make the connection. General conversation is a good way for him to gauge your interest before he decides his next move.

A simple conversation is harmless, and it gives you a chance to send a ‘not interested’ signal and him an opportunity to proceed or retreat.

Signs He Finds You Attractive

4. He’s Extra Nice Around You

If a guy is extra nice to you, he probably likes you. Guys can be difficult to read. But if they’re acting extra friendly, it’s usually because they’re interested in getting to know you more.

The biggest telltale is a person’s eyes and their behavior around you. He might go out of his way to pass you and have a quick chat or just to be polite to the people around you.

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5. He Looks His Best Around You

There’s no denying that, as humans, we are visually oriented. We notice good-looking people, and we’re drawn to them.

If a guy puts in the extra effort to look his best, he’s likely seen as more attractive by potential partners, which is how he wants you to see him. When we look good, we feel better about ourselves. It’s human nature. 

6. He Makes an Effort to Be Near You

When a guy likes you, he’ll try to place himself near you to give himself the best opportunity to say hi. When a man finds you attractive, he’s drawn to you like a magnetHe knows if he’s in your vicinity, his chances of meeting you are way better than if he hides in a corner, eyeing you across the room.

Signs He Finds You Attractive

7. He Compliments You

Everyone likes compliments. When a guy compliments you, depending on the context, he finds you attractive. Think about it. Why would you compliment someone you weren’t attracted to?

When we have eyes for someone, we tend to see all their unique, positive qualities and are blind to their negatives. There’s a difference between genuine and fake compliments, so if a guy gives you honest compliments, he’s already decided he likes you.

8. He Asks Questions

Have you ever been talking to a guy who starts asking you about yourself? Not in a creepy way, but a genuine interest in learning more about you. You might not realize, but it’s a sign that he finds you attractive.

When a guy finds you attractive, he wants to know more about you, which means on some level, he’s drawn to you and wants to be intimate with you.

9. He Invites You

If a guy invites you out, it means he’s interested in you. Plain and simple. There is no need to overthink things – just say yes or no, and enjoy yourself.

It sounds straightforward, but sometimes we make things more complicated than they need to be. If he’s going out and invites you along, it’s usually because he’s intrigued and would like to get to know you better.

Signs He Finds You Attractive

10. He Vies for Your Attention

If a guy is vying for your attention, it means he’s attracted to you. Why else would he do it? When someone is drawn to you, they’ll do everything in their power to get close to you and win your affection.

One clear sign is when a guy vies for your attention, putting in extra effort, and even trying to outcompete other guys for it. If he’s pursuing you and vying for your awareness, it’s a sign he sees something special in you and wants to be with you.

Things to Remember

When a man is attracted to you, He’ll find reasons to talk to you, get to know you, and be close to you. By catching your eyes and gauging your response, he’s looking for signs of mutual attraction. General conversation is a good way for a guy to check his level of interest before he decides his next move.

The biggest telltale is a person’s eyes and their behavior around you. When we look good, we feel better about ourselves. It’s human nature. When a man finds you attractive, he’s drawn to you like a magnet.

If he’s going out and invites you along, he’s intrigued and would like to get to know you. And if he’s pursuing you and vying for your awareness, it’s a sign he sees something special in you and wants to be with you.

Signs He Finds You Attractive

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Best Quotes

“Attraction is beyond our will or ideas sometimes” – Juliette Binoche

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“I don’t have a type. But one thing I can say from my dating experience is that a physical attraction will only take you so far. So you definitely have to have a strong intellectual connection as well” – Jesse Metcalfe