14 Ways How to Keep a Woman Interested
She's Into You. What Next?
You have a great woman who’s into you.
You must be doing something right, well done. Now you need to hold on to her.
Here’s where a lot of guys mess up.
They put their best foot forward when they meet a girl, they show their best self to her and she responds positively.
Then, as familiarity kicks in he starts getting complacent.
He starts making less of an effort and over time the attraction starts to fade from both sides.
Once you have her it’s time to step up, not get comfortable.
Women and men think differently. You need to operate in her language if you want her to be happy.
14 Ways to Keep Her Interested
1. Show Her How You Feel
Talks cheap, and actions speak louder than words.
Everyone talks these days yet few people deliver on their claims. Be a guy who walks the walk.
Show your woman with your actions that she has a special guy who actually does what he says.
You show her how important she is to you by your consistent actions.
That could mean picking up the phone and calling her for 30 seconds to let her know you’re thinking about her.
You can help her out without her having to ask. And you can keep your eyes from wandering when you’re out and about and a beautiful woman walks by.
Act like a man, not an immature little boy. She’ll respect you a lot more for it.
2. Show Interest in What She's Into
When she’s interested in something that you have zero interest in yourself, make an effort to understand where she’s coming from.
It’s not all about you. She has her own mind, interests, likes, and dislikes. If she’s special to you you should want to know about what she’s into.
You don’t have to find it fascinating or take it on as your own hobby, but show some interest and let her share them with you.
Giving attention to your woman means a lot to her.
Women like to be acknowledged and valued for who they are, not just how they look (though they like that too).
3. Spend Quality Time With Her
The most valuable asset you have is your time. The ultimate sacrifice you can make is that of your time.
It speaks volumes when you make time to be totally present and available for her. You’re not checking your phone or getting distracted with other things.
You block it all out and focus solely on her. Think of quality time with your woman as a long term investment.
By showing your woman you value her enough to spend this time with her you’re going to have a much happier and rewarding relationship than if you didn’t.
Women like to feel special from the man they’ve chosen to be with. If you never spend any quality time together don’t expect the relationship to last long.
4. Be Trustworthy
You want to be able to trust your woman and know that she’s loyal to you when you aren’t together.
Likewise, she expects the same from you.
If the woman you’re with isn’t worth you being loyal and trustworthy then you shouldn’t be with her.
Nobody deserves to be lied to and cheated on.
Be a man of quality who women respect for being a disciplined and trustworthy man.
You’re not a horny little puppy dog chasing every cute girl you see.
She wants to see you can keep your desires in check and be a loyal man for your woman.
If you can't do it, or you don’t want to do it, that’s ok.
You’re allowed to be a bachelor and seek non-exclusive relationships.
Just don’t lie to your woman about it telling her she’s the one, then letting your eyes and your hands wander when she’s not around.
Keep it real, with her and with yourself.
5. Be Nice to Her Family and Friends
Friends and family are important to women. Do you know how happy it makes her when you meet her friends and they like you?
It reaffirms to her that she’s with the right guy and it makes her like you even more.
This makes sense. She values the opinions of her family and friends. If they like you then you must be awesome.
Your value in her eyes increases and she wants to be with you infinitely more.
It’s not always going to be easy. Her friends or family might be turds and you don’t like them. In that case, don’t make a big deal about it. Be cool. Make an effort to stay civil.
They'll unravel themselves, you stay Alpha.
M a genuine effort to show them the best of you, as you would in any social situation. If they're not feeling that, that's their problem.
6. Get Romantic
Women love romance. You don’t have to be a cringe-worthy romantic every day of the week. That gets boring fast because it’s predictable and it's not spontaneous.
Bless your woman with romantic gestures. They don’t have to be big, sometimes the smallest gestures are the most memorable.
When you give your woman a romantic experience it tells her (by your actions) that you value her and you value the relationship you share.
Do something romantic and make her feel special. You’ll be glad you did.
7. Show Your Sweet Side
95% of men have a sweet side and you’re one of them.
If you didn’t you wouldn’t be reading this post. Some men have problems showing their weaknesses or vulnerabilities.
You can show your sweet side to your woman and still retain your dignity as a man. There’s a difference between being ‘sweet’ and being a ‘chump’.
Being sweet means you’re showing a genuine side of yourself and you’re confident enough to do so.
Whereas being a chump means placating to your woman, putting her on a pedestal by default and sweet-talking her with rubbish that even you don’t believe.
Being sweet is being real. Being a chump is fake.
8. Make Her Feel Special
Nothing shows your love like acts of genuine affection. Hold her hand, give her a soft kiss on the cheek or a soft touch on her lower back when you’re beside her.
Woman notice this. They’re biologically programmed to want intimacy from the man they have emotional feelings for.
You’re that man. Touch her in a way that makes her feel special and she’ll respond in kind.
You can also do this with your words. Whisper something sweet in her ear when she least expects it.
Tell her how beautiful she looks or how grateful you are to have her in your life.
It takes zero effort on your part but to her, it can make her week, and she can reaffirm to herself that she’s with the right guy.
What woman wouldn't want to be with a guy like that?
9. Be Playful
Numerous studies have been made that show a sense of humor as one of the most attractive features of a man from a women’s point of view.
A major cause of stress and anxiety is being too serious and taking everything as a personal insult.
Lighten up, especially with your woman. See the funnier side of life and don’t be afraid to poke fun at yourself, or her, in a friendly way.
Women like to feel good. They want to laugh and smile and if you’re the man that can make her do that, she’s yours.
A word of warning: Don’t be a clown. If you try to hard to be funny or take on the role of stand up comedian it won’t work.
Your humour has to be an extension of your personality. Don’t force it you don’t have to be “on” every day.
Never manufacture humour or any personality trait. Be yourself, just a better, funnier version.
10. Surprise Her
Doesn’t everyone like a nice surprise? Women sure do.
To keep a woman into you don't become predictable and do the same old thing all the time.
Call her and say “keep x day free I’ll pick you up at 6”. Keep her in a bit of suspense. Plan something nice that she doesn’t expect and surprise her.
Surprising her when she least expects it adds to your own mystery as well. You don’t want to be the same old boring guy.
Keep the excitement, magic, and attraction alive by surprising your woman when she least expects it.
11. Listen When She's Talking
Talking for a woman is an emotional need. That’s how they solve their problems, by talking about them.
When your woman is talking to you about her feelings or a problem she’s having, she doesn’t want you to give her your solution.
She wants you to listen. Yes, that’s right. Sit there, shut up, and listen.
Try it next time. Let her talk. Acknowledge what she’s saying and show empathy, but let her talk.
When she’s finished she’ll likely say something like “I feel so much better, thank you”, wrapping her arms around you as if you just saved her from a fire breathing dragon.
She feels so much better because you were there to let her talk and she could let it all out.
You didn’t have to do anything except listen, and she loves you for it.
Once you understand women you’ll be amazed at how easy it is to keep one happy.
12. Be Respectful
Respect is the foundation for any relationship. Your woman is no different.
Never disrespect a woman, verbally, emotionally, or physically. That puts you in the lower category of men.
Show respect to your woman at all times, even when she’s driving you crazy.
When she calms down she’ll respect you a lot more as a man because you were able to stay congruent and control your emotions at a time when she couldn’t.
This doesn’t mean you stay polite and subservient as shes cussing you out. You can show respect by walking away or not responding.
Respect is shown through your consistent actions. Your woman needs to know that no matter what, you’re a solid man who respects her.
13. Boost Her Self-Esteem
Be a source of strength for your woman. Let her know why she’s amazing. Women feel insecure sometimes and their self-esteem fluctuates.
When she’s with you she wants to feel good about herself.
If you show your woman why she’s special and you acknowledge her strengths it boosts her self esteem.
After a while when she thinks about you her initial emotional response will be positive.
When she’s with you she feels good about herself. That’s how it should be.
You’re not just any guy.
You’re her special guy. Receiving a compliment from you is 100x more valuable than hearing it from anyone else.
14. Show Your Masculinity
A woman wants a man. Despite what they might say, on a biological level, feminine desires masculine and masculine desires feminine.
If this wasn’t the case the human species would have become extinct millions of years ago.
Be a man for your woman. Don’t jump on a chair screaming when you see a cockroach.
When you’re going through hard times keep your head together and don’t fall prey to your short term emotions.
When you’re out with your woman open a door for her and when you enter a venue take her by the hand and lead her into the room.
Show her as a man you're a confident leader. Make her feel safe when she’s with you.
Keeping a woman doesn’t involve being anything that you aren’t already. You don’t have to fake or act or aim to please. Just be your best self as a man.
When you live as the best man you can be women will want to be with you, men will want to befriend you, and success won’t be far away.
Best Quotes About How to Keep a Woman
“Women like silent men. They think they’re listening” - Marcel Archard
“Even if a man could understand women he still wouldn’t believe it” - AW Brown
“To find out a girl’s faults, praise her to her girlfriends” - Benjamin Franklin
“To make a woman happy, give her these three things: attention, affection, and appreciation” - Chris Savage